Over the past few months little things have been said here or there (or not said at all) that have been tough to take. My family (in particular my father) doesn’t care for my husband. My father says little things to me that make it apparent. On the other hand my siblings and mother don’t really speak of him at all. They all acknowledge him and are all polite to him, but when he’s not around he’s not spoken of or spoken of poorly. And yes, what my father says is true 99% of the time, but what am I supposed to do with his comments? It’s a tough spot to be in. Sometimes I wish my husband knew how much respect people have lost for him. Even if they don’t know about the affair they know he moved out and hurt me and the kids. And that’s enough for them.